I have to say that this is my most favorite time of year. I love the music, the lights and the merriment. I still get giddy when I watch Rudolph or The Year Without a Santa Claus. I sing along with Heat Miser and Snow Miser while they do their little dances. It brings out the little kid in me.

My husband, the girls and I usually spend Thanksgiving weekend decorating, shopping for new decorations and watching movies like Elf and The Santa Clause.

This year, our decorating weekend was pushed back a couple of days. Our girls competed in an Irish Step Dance competition in Philadelphia on Friday and Saturday so our normal holiday festivities had to wait until Sunday.

We ended up finding some free time in between performances so we decided to go find some of that holiday magic we usually make at home. We took a walk to Macy’s in Center City. We were greeted by a corner musician playing "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas" which shifted my holiday spirit into high gear.

Macy’s bustled with Black Friday weekend shoppers but we were able to maneuver our way to the middle of the store to enjoy the Christmas Light Show. We watched the animated ballerinas, snowflakes and reindeer dance to the music as 100,000 LED lights twinkled in time with the holiday tunes. This attraction dates back to before I was born (way back when) and is housed in the world famous Wanamaker building. My husband used to visit when he was little so it was kind of nostalgic for him.

In addition to the light show, the third floor of Macy’s becomes the setting for A Christmas Carol, the classic Charles Dickens Christmas story. Dickens Village boasts more than 100 fully animated figures in 6,000 square feet. This historical attraction walks you through the cherished holiday book and at the end of the story, children can visit Santa. We walked through that and reread the story of Ebeneezer Scrooge.

Adding to that holiday magic, Dickens Village and the Christmas Light Show are free events; check this site out for information.

We are planning on venturing to the city again to visit Elfreth’s Alley for their Deck the Alley tradition. Elfreth’s Alley is referred to as "Our nation’s oldest residential street.” It is a National Historic Landmark District that dates back to the early 18th century. During the holidays, you can tour Elfreth’s Alley’s private historic homes and experience the holidays colonial style. There are organized tours but all are free to just take a stroll down the alley.

There are some unique holiday happenings on this side of the bridge too. Storybook Land in Egg Harbor has been one of my most favorite family jaunts. Santa appears on the rooftop and magically lights up the park. Your kids can even help him count down. Wow! It gets me every time. Unfortunately, my kids are a bit too old for Storybook Land but I highly recommend it if you have preschoolers or children under 8 or so. The rides are the perfect size for that age group and the look in their eyes when the park lights up is magic itself. If you go, make sure you get there before 5 p.m. to take part in the park lighting countdown.

If you’re a fan of Charles Dickens and A Christmas Carol, downtown Medford transforms into Dickens Village on Dec. 3. I’ve never been but have heard great things about this unique event. Visit here for more information.

Cinnaminson’s Winter Fest is a fun day for the whole family including the famous cookie walk, local entertainment, tons of crafters, and visits with Santa. This festival is taking place on Sunday, Dec. 4 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Cinnaminson High School.

Collingswood’s shopping district features caroling and lights for evening shopping. Their Parade of Lights is scheduled for Dec. 9. Embellished fire trucks and floats parade from Zane Avenue to Homestead Avenue. Check this site for events, dates and times.

Haddonfield has Candlelight Shopping every Friday through Christmas Eve from 6:30 to 8:30 p.m. Enjoy carriage rides, visits with Santa and live entertainment. An added bonus is free parking through Dec. 31.

In my family, driving around looking at lights is an event in itself. Sometimes, we add some cookies and hot chocolate and make it a surprise before bedtime. For the past few years, a few houses on Mercer Street in Cherry Hill have had huge displays and I think that Santa might have been there too. We also like to ride through Moorestown and look at all the older houses dressed for the holidays.

Baking cookies and donating them, adopting a family to shop for, donating to Toys for Tots or making handmade gifts for family and friends are also great ways to find that holiday spirit and teach your children that giving to others is all part of the holiday hoopla.

Whatever you are planning, December flies by. Make the most of it—especially if your kids are little, they grow up so fast. Finding that holiday spirit may be as easy as listening to your children sing "Jingle Bells," watching their holiday concert or signing your Christmas cards.

Enjoy preparing for the holidays, remember the reasons for the season and make some merry memories.