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Cherry Hill Dad Tells YouTube: Teachers Bullied My Autistic Son

Detailing the abuses of classroom aides he says made his disabled son's school life "a living hell," Cherry Hill resident Stuart Chaifetz is taking his case public--with audio he captured secretly.

A Cherry Hill father who says his autistic son was tormented for at least six months by public-school special education teachers and support staff has taken his case viral with damning, covertly gathered audio of the classroom in which he says his son was abused.

In a 17-minute video, titled "Teacher/Bully: How My Son Was Humiliated and Tormented by his Teacher and Aide," Stuart Chaifetz replays portions of audio he attributes to "Kelly" and "Jodi," whom he says are his son Akian's former special education and resource teachers.

The voices in the recording tell 10-year-old Akian that he is "such a bastard," order him to "shut [his] mouth," and antagonize him by telling him "no" when he asks for reassurances that he will see his father soon.

Akian, Stuart Chaifetz says, is mostly non-communicative—as are his special-needs cohorts, in front of whom these remarks allegedly were made—but mostly sweet-tempered. On the tape, the boy can be heard responding by alternately whimpering like a kicked dog and lashing out at his caretakers.

When the notes describing Akian's bad behavior kept coming home, Stuart Chaifetz says he worked with a behavioral specialist and an IEP team to try to recreate a situation in which Akian was triggered into violence. They couldn't, so Stuart Chaifetz took matters into his own hands.

"On the morning of Friday, Feb. 17, 2012, I wired my son and sent him to school," Stuart Chaifetz writes on his website Teacher/Bully. "That night, when I listened to the audio, my life changed forever."

Chaifetz's complaints mention "Jodi" and "Kelly" as being teachers in the room with his son. The six-and-a-half hours of audio he claims to have gathered (and submitted to school officials) paints a picture of employees who discussed extensively personal details of their lives at length and in front of their charges. Chaifetz alleges that they did this because they were secure in the knowledge that none of the students in the classroom would be able to tell anyone about it.

(A March 26 report from the Interactive Autism Network and Johns Hopkins University researchers indicates preliminarily that more than 60 percent of all American children with autism spectrum disorders have been victims of bullying, with 47 percent of fifth-grade-aged students having had such experiences. The results of the studies have yet to be peer-reviewed.)

A Google cached version of the faculty list for Horace Mann Elementary School shows two names, Jodi Sgouros and Kelly Altenburg, that are no longer on its current directory; it is unknown for certain whether these are the women mentioned in Chaifetz's claims. The cached directory identifies Sgouros as an educational assistant and Altenburg as a special education teacher.

According to Altenburg's LinkedIn public profile, she is a "teacher/consultant at Cherry Hill Public Schools;" on his blog, Chaifetz says that although Jodi was fired, "Kelly...still works in the school district...an outrage I am not willing to allow to pass in silence."

On his video and his website, Chaifetz pleads for a formal explanation as to why some of the parties involved are still employed within the district.

"To this end, I seek a full and public apology from all those adults who were in my son’s class for what they did to him," he says on his site. "It is also far past time that these issues are allowed to be hidden from public view.

"If a teacher bullies a child, especially one with special needs, they need to be immediately fired."

When reached for comment early morning on Tuesday, April 24, district spokeswoman Susan Bastnagel said only that the Chaifetz's situation was "an internal personnel matter that the district took seriously and handled appropriately and quickly."

Bastnagel would offer no further comment, although she did suggest that a more formal statement could be possibly forthcoming from Cherry Hill Public Schools leadership.

Stay with Patch for additional updates as they become available.

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Update, 8 p.m., April 24: Cherry Hill Public Schools Superintendent Maureen Reusche released the following statement on the district's website:

"In February, upon receiving a copy of an audio recording, the district undertook a thorough and rigorous investigation and, as we have previously noted, responded swiftly and appropriately. Although this is a personnel matter and there are specifics that I cannot legally address publicly, I want to assure our parents that the individuals who are heard on the recording raising their voices and inappropriately addressing children no longer work in the district and have not since shortly after we received the copy of the recording."

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Update, 11:03 a.m., April 24: An earlier version of this article considered whether the aide captured on Stuart Chaifetz's audio recording may have been a Cherry Hill Public Schools long-term substitute also named Jodi; Chaifetz has confirmed to Collingswood Patch that this is not the person captured on his recording. We apologize for the error. 

Chaifetz also confirmed that although Akian had the same teacher for more than a year, his son's reported behavioral concerns have only been ongoing since September 2011.

Ric April 24, 2012 at 02:56 pm
This story is so sad. "Jodi" and "Kelly" are cowards.
Rachael Ruppert April 24, 2012 at 03:58 pm
as a future special education teacher, this story breaks my heart. these aides should be protecting this child from bullying not doing it and be fired from this vocation all together. i hope this man knows there are people out there who deeply care and respect individuals with autism. children all pose exceptional lives and potential, and i hope this boy gets the bright education he deserves!
Tim Durkin April 24, 2012 at 04:50 pm
This is an outrage and the teacher(s) should be dismissed immediately!!! What lesson do we teach our kids? Make sure you are protected by the union before you bully someone!?!?!?!? NJEA needs to walk the talk and get behind removing this element from schools immediately! In the immortal words of Private Downey in A Few Good Men, "we have to protect those that can not protect themselves"
AnoninCinna April 24, 2012 at 09:36 pm
This teacher "Jodi" is a very sick and sadistic individual. I hope that this family files criminal charges against this person.
Dee Mcmullin April 25, 2012 at 02:11 pm
YES, I AGREE! saying a bogus i'm sorry is not going to cut it.. HATS OFF TO THE BOYS DAD!
Lisa Shields April 29, 2012 at 12:43 pm
For those who do not understand "outplacement", who harry and harass the parents seeking a "better educational fit" for their special needs children, this is a blatant example of an in district failure.
Yes, some kids are fine in district settings, and can be mainstreamed with ease. But This tape demonstrated not only abuse, but education workers who seemed perfectly at ease with what they were doing. That should be a red flag. Something is very wrong in this district...and needs to be addressed.
Frank M. April 30, 2012 at 12:30 pm
My God the actions of the teachers involved is DISGUSTING, SICKENING as a human being I am OUTRAGED and at a loss of words. I cannot fathom nor begin to understand what SICK demented type of persons would do such a thing. My heart truly goes out to the father of this beautiful child.
Lori W. May 1, 2012 at 05:49 pm
This is very sad. It takes a special gift to be able to teach kids, not to mention children with special needs. I personally feel that people shouldn't be allowed to teach children if they lack patience and self-control in stressful situations. NO child should be spoken too and disregarded as displayed in the audio recording. This poor child has to deal with it from now on, whether or not he ever hears a public apology. I think it's great that the Dad decided to let the public be aware. If public education systems would properly evaluate the teacher's (including their behaviors), stuff like this would probably never happen...or at least not to this extent!!

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